During the July 12 broadcast of the SBS selection present, Heechul spent a while hanging out with actors Lee Ho Cheol and Im Won Hee. When he requested Lee Ho Cheol when his final relationship was, the actor stunned Heechul by replying, “I feel it was after I was 20 or 21 years previous [by Korean reckoning]? It was round 15 years in the past.”
The Super Junior member expressed disbelief at how lengthy Lee Ho Cheol had been out of the courting recreation, and the actor defined that he had been busy with work and had moved round rather a lot when he was youthful.
When he shared, “I wish to begin making an effort once more,” Heechul suggested him, “In the tip, it boils right down to confidence. In my opinion, you don’t want appears to be like in any respect.”
Im Won Hee protested, “The solely motive you possibly can say that’s since you look the best way you do!” Back within the studio, Seo Jang Hoon chimed in, “That’s since you’re Kim Heechul,” and the panel of movie star mothers agreed.
However, Heechul insisted that confidence was a very powerful factor when it got here to courting. “My first relationship was with an older lady I met at a membership after I was 22 years previous,” he recalled. “I confidently instructed her what I favored and didn’t like when it comes to my tastes and preferences, as a substitute of being cautious and saying, ‘That’s okay with me too.’ That’s the form of factor girls like.”
Lee Ho Cheol countered, “That’s since you had been good-looking AND assured.” Im Won Hee agreed, “You had been capable of say issues like that since you had your face.”
Undeterred, Heechul went on, “I don’t like taking part in push-and-pull video games. When you meet a lady you want, don’t hesitate. I inform her straight away that I like her. Back after I dated my first girlfriend, I requested her straight away, ‘Do you wish to exit with me?’”
The idol then reassured Lee Ho Cheol, “After chatting with you for the primary time at this time, I feel that in case you talked to a lady you favored for about 5 minutes, she’d fall for you it doesn’t matter what.”
When Lee Ho Cheol expressed his doubts, Heechul shared that the actor may belief his recommendation as a result of he had a 100 p.c success fee with girls.
“Believe me,” he mentioned. “I’ve by no means failed. It’s good to strategy issues slowly, but it surely’s higher to be ahead. Let me offer you a number of ideas. First, be assured. And you need to hit her with a number of strains out of nowhere. Just confess. Say one thing like, ‘Is it okay for me to love you?’”
Lee Ho Cheol identified that the lady may flip him down by saying she needed to remain pals, to which Heechul responded, “Then you possibly can say, ‘I don’t assume we are able to simply be pals. I wish to meet you as my girlfriend.’”
Heechul continued, “If you and I switched faces and stored our personalities, I’m 100 p.c assured that I nonetheless wouldn’t get turned down by a single lady. I’m assured. Even together with your appears to be like, so long as I had my character. Because that is all about confidence.”
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